The THREE Ways to Grow in Holiness as a Catholic
A Reason for Hope
What does it really mean to grow in holiness — and is there a clear, time-tested path for doing so as a Catholic today? In this episode of A Reason for Hope, Jack Garno sits down with Director of Theology Dr. David Hajduk for a deep dive into the Three Ways of the Spiritual Life — an ancient Catholic framework taught by the saints that explains how souls actually grow in holiness. Drawing from Scripture, St. Thomas Aquinas, and centuries of Catholic spiritual theology, this conversation explores what conversion really requires, why humility is essential, and how grace transforms us over time. Dr. Hajduk explains the Purgative Way, Illuminative Way, and Unitive Way, showing how each stage builds upon a deeper conversion of heart. The discussion covers the role of confession, prayer, fasting, almsgiving, and mental prayer, as well as the difficult but necessary experiences known as the dark nights of the soul — moments when God seems absent but is actually drawing the soul closer. This episode offers both clarity and hope for Catholics seeking real spiritual growth in 2026, reminding us that holiness is not reserved for a few saints, but is the universal call of every Christian — made possible by grace and our cooperation with it. Whether you feel stuck, discouraged, or simply hungry for deeper union with God, this conversation provides a faithful roadmap for the journey. -Support our Sponsors- Magnifier - An exciting new magazine to awaken wonder in children ages 7–12. Scapulars.com - Divine protection in life and death with the most durable, comfortable scapulars ever made. -Support Our Mission- Donate Here Book an Event -Follow Us On Social Media- Facebook: https://facebook.com/r4hpodcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/r4hpodcast YouTube: https://youtube.com/@R4HPodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@r4hpodcast ⏰Timecode⏰ 00:00 Introduction 01:08 Start of Interview 01:54 Are there certain steps to take to become more Holy? 04:59 Importance of the Crucifix 06:33 What is the goal of our lives? 09:06 How to Become Friends with God 11:41 3 Ways to Grow in Holiness 13:28 The Purgative Way 21:01 The Illuminative Way 27:12 the Unitive Way 36:04 How do we approach setbacks? 39:34 End of Interview