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What Nobody Teaches You About Making Friends as an Adult | Jordan Harbinger & Adam Lane Smith

I Wish You Knew

Two thirds of millennials are experiencing depression symptoms from loneliness. Everyone is walking around wishing someone would talk to them. And nobody is starting. Not because they do not want connection. Because they are terrified of looking like they only want something. Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, sits down with Jordan Harbinger, one of the world's leading experts on human connection and authentic relationship building, to break down exactly why people stay isolated, what the difference is between networking and genuine bonding, and how to start building real human relationships even if you have no one right now. This is not a social skills video. It is an attachment science and behavioral psychology breakdown of why the loneliest people are often the kindest ones, and what they have been getting wrong without knowing it. What you will learn in this video:1- Why the nicest people in the room are the ones staying silent and how that is making the loneliness epidemic worse2- The number one mistake people make when trying to build relationships and why it poisons everything before it starts3- Why covert contracts are quietly destroying friendships you thought were solid4- The difference between ABC always be closing and ABG always be generous and why one builds real loyalty and the other destroys it5- Why 65 percent of adult Americans are running a feelings and services mentality without knowing it6- How secure attachment and Jordan's abundance networking model are describing the exact same thing from two different fields7- Why keeping score in relationships is a losing battle even when you think you are being fair8- How to be interesting if you do not think you are and what the most genuinely magnetic people do instead9- What to actually do if you are new to a city, isolated, and have no idea where to begin10- Why the only currency that survives everything is real human relationships and how to start building them today If you have been waiting for someone else to reach out first, this conversation is for you. 📚 WORK WITH ME 💬 1:1 COACHING Work directly with my team: https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/private-coaching/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_content=5/14 📋 FREE ATTACHMENT QUIZ Find out your attachment style in under 5 minutes: https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/attachment-quiz-organic/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_content=5/14 📬 NEWSLETTER Get weekly insights on attachment patterns: https://adamlanesmith.com/newsletter-signup/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_content=5/14 Connect with Adam on your second preferred platform:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro X: https://twitter.com/adamlanesmith Threads: https://www.threads.com/@attachmentadam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/ I Wish You Knew Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh_uRUnpQwNZb_WG76TxTTw?sub_confirmation=1 Jordan Harbinger: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/jordanharbingerYouTube: jordanharbinger.com/youtubeInstagram: instagram.com/jordanharbinger