Be a Sinner, not a Hypocrite
The Catholic Thing
By Fr. Paul D. Scalia Are you a hypocrite? Well, it might feel like that at times. At least, it should. Anyone striving for something great should be aware of his failures and how short he falls of the ideal. Even more so when the ideal is Christ Himself. You go to Mass, pray the Rosary, and say grace before meals. But then you snap at your children, covet your neighbor's goods (and wife), eat too much, and so on. Yes, we feel the division between what we believe and how we behave. We can feel like hypocrites at times. Now, some of that division comes from being children of Adam. Our human nature is wounded. We've inherited the disintegration that's part and parcel of original sin. Our thoughts, words, and actions are not integrated, not whole and entire. But some of this is also our own doing, our own failure to live a life of integrity. And every time we sin, we exacerbate that division. Of course, Hypocrites! is the classic accusation thrown at serious Catholics or at anyone simply striving for more than the world's paltry offerings. People see that Catholics fall short of what we profess. They see us live in contradiction to what we claim to believe and strive to be. It's hypocrisy, pure and simple. Or so it would seem. So, the striver and the hypocrite look a lot alike, both saying one thing and doing another. The word hypocrite comes from the Greek for actor. Both parties seem to be just that, actors playing out something that they are not. But we know that there's a profound difference between the two. The sinner is not yet the Christian he desires to be. The hypocrite doesn't even desire it. The sinner who strives is discontented by the division within him. He wants to be made whole – to think, speak, and act according to what he knows to be true. He wants to live according to the truth of who he is and what he is called to be. His failure to do so is a cause of frustration and, more importantly, repentance. The hypocrite, on the other hand, has made peace with his interior division. He is not bothered or tortured by his lack of wholeness. He's less concerned about conforming himself to an ideal and more concerned about acting out that ideal to others. . .or reshaping the ideal to fit his behavior. He doesn't strive for the truth, but for comfort, power, or gain. Which brings us to today's Gospel about two sons (Matthew 21:28-32): the rebellious first son and the seemingly compliant second son. On the surface, they both seem hypocritical. But, again, there's a profound difference. The first son – representing tax collectors and prostitutes – is divided but capable of repentance. "I will not," he says to his father. But then he changes his mind and conforms himself to the father's will. He was rebellious, to be sure. But he also had the capacity to repent. He lost his way, but not his compass. The second son – representing the chief priests and elders of the people – is a hypocrite. That's our Lord's preferred term to describe leaders (see, for example, Matthew 23). The second son says one thing – "Yes, sir" – and does another, without any qualms or pangs of conscience. Nor does he repent of the contradiction that he's introduced into his soul and into the world. He's made peace with it. The point is, the greater defect in the second son isn't disobedience but a lack of repentance. What offends God more than sin is the denial of it and the refusal to repent. Thus Jesus brings the lesson to its conclusion when He rebukes the chief priests and elders, not so much for their initial error but because they "did not later change [their] minds and believe." The parable reveals why we always find our Lord so patient and gentle with "tax collectors and sinners." It's not because He makes light of their sins (that would be the modern solution). It's because He finds in them a discontent and discomfort, a desire for wholeness, and therefore a capacity to repent and be restored. By the same reasoning, our Lord is severe with th...